Moment at 13:20 in I'm 42. If you're in your 30s, watch this. by Mark Manson.
Your choice of a romantic partner is the highest leverage decision you will ever make, as a good partner makes life easier while a bad one makes everything harder Maturity is defined as the ability to endure things you dislike for the sake of things that matter, distinguishing worthwhile adulthood from childishness https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXgLk4TnAlM&t=599&momentTitle=maturity_and_worthwhile_effort. Finally, life truly begins when you stop waiting to be saved and accept total responsibility for your own path https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXgLk4TnAlM&t=566&momentTitle=accepting_self_responsibility.
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